with "friends" like that, who needs enemies?

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shortfatbalduglyman
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17 Nov 2024, 8:24 pm

What kind of bad and wrong actions and statements did your (former) "friends" (allegedly) make, and how did you answer?

Why did you stop being friends with someone?

Why did someone else stop being friends with you?

Anyone just give up on making friends altogether? I did that a longfuck time ago s**t. not worth the energy it takes. cost benefit analysis.



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18 Nov 2024, 5:00 pm

What kind of bad and wrong actions and statements did your (former) "friends" (allegedly) make, and how did you answer? ]
A "Friend" of mine recently invited another close friend and I to her birthday party. However she ended up celebrating her birthday together with another aquaintance who removed both of us from the guest list. Our "Friend didn't bother to stand up for us either. I felt some anger but I remained calm and offered to take her out for her birthday on another occasion.
Why did you stop being friends with someone?

-Recently, I found out that this "Friend" turned out to be someone who was snooping for information so I blocked her.
- While I was celebrating my birthday, one of my more causual friends not only texted me unsolicited advice but also managed to gaslight me which I saw as red flags.


Why did someone else stop being friends with you?
- Earlier this year, I was dumped by a woman who I went to school with because she chose her toxic best friend over me. The main reason for that is because this person managed to turn her against after I not only confronted her but also put my foot down to us reconnecting. For one thing, this toxic bff can't seem to respect me as a person