If some get this dance masking right, that's great. Honestly autistic people are different, should have communities in countries where dedicated coffee shop meetup from time to time, meet others in your area, see if anything useful, helpful out of it.
The more woman mask, more we agree that we just don't exist, it's one thing to survive work place but you setting yourself up to life life being something you not, so if it's fun great but if it isn't then what's the option?
I still wonder about Muslim lady who killed her wedding guests, was she on spectrum? I had a mom-in-law from hell. I tell you she could take whole thread to explain why I just couldn't understand her as some people, and how she provoked some of the responses from me. The strange thing was that they cooked this famous family chicken curry, first it didn't seem odd but after a while it seemed like curry wasn't something normal German people cooked. After watching Sparta 300 that I thought I'd never seeing an ugly Indian ruler, unless only let good looking ones have travel visas as conspiracy to cover up. She was forever arriving at our place, unannounced, taking it upon herself to choose and buy my babies purity and porridge, even choosing furniture for our first home together. I never had formal training, I just always cooked a lot, so it was ironic that I could at least bake loaf of Home made bread that was decent, or I could make my own samoosas that nearly right except for curry spice.
I suppose nothing on TV during day, I had watched Indian series and kind of thought of it as form of ABA therapy, conditions you to change mindset to adapt to family life, but el bit tricky but since you're female that once didn't even get diagnosis for autism it was unlikely to get any sympathy for struggles adapting to mom-in-law. This would become purely male problem if given odds autistic men got married more often.