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zacb
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06 Dec 2024, 1:39 pm

So lately I have noticed different people seeming to have varying levels of interests, but I have also been kinda meh as I may move out of the country , so why invest so much in anything if I am leaving anyhow?

So anyhow, there is a girl I met at the bar to play pool who told me to come hang with the group when I was sitting on the bar stool and eventually got her Instagram. I play tapped her after winning a game of pool and seemed pretty intuitive. I am not trying to push it too much, but might try to compliment her next time I see her at pool. Don't want to be too forward. She also what I was doing Sunday and when we played pool last.

Second one is at work. Honestly the signs are relatively weak, but I thought it was weird she tried to get my attention when I got my headphones on and when I passed her in the backroom her and the girl she was with went into conference about something. I tried to give them space. Otherwise we normal chat when we are together.

The last one has been a bit... Odd. So it is my supervisor. She was saying if you need anything feel free to talk to me (after work). I did say I had PDA and ADHD and before and after she has been a heck of a lot of compliments, saying I need a raise, wish I worked there more (it is a second job), and then commented on helping on a friend and wish she had a friend like me. We are two weeks apart. She is super nice, but not this nice to other people. I am not sure it is just super weird.

Anyone have any insight? Usually my pattern Recognition is broke so I have tried to not be as obnoxious.



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06 Dec 2024, 11:08 pm

I'm not sure how to interpret these. They are vague enough that they could be just normal banter but they could also be something more. It's hard to tell. I'm sorry I couldn't give you more insight.



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07 Dec 2024, 2:54 am

You are fine. What annoys me is most interactions (with the opposite sex) seem like edge cases. Outside my boss they seem like normal banter and even with my boss seem like banter. Idk.just wish there was a heuristic to figure it out