Ex is frustrating
Lies about us. Says we were always just friends. Become worse since I said we'd never get back together. They broke up with me ugh. They're just really weird and irritating about the whole thing. So apparently we're friends but I guess they're holding out hope we will get back together. It never worked out for them 4 times. They always wanted the ball in their court. Well now I think it's in mine cause I will keep turning them down. Like seriously, why break up with me so often and keep me around? I don't get it. If I tried to break up with them they'd have a tantrum. They broke up with me the same way I tried. I'm not into getting into a mess again. I'm not their soulmate.
They try to say I am and I'm not believing their manipulative ways. Like I'm pretty sure they break up with me cause they've met a new person and then when it doesn't work out, they just keep trying me. I don't like it. I've known this person since I was in HS. I can't take it when they want to sabotage our friendship. You want me in your life, you're going to have to be my friend only is how I feel. I'm tired of having my heart toyed with. .
They lie and I know because they get shifty, stutter, and take way too long to answer. I don't think I like it anymore. That's not a way to treat me. I'm grateful they ended it as I'm feeling like I got to dodge a bullet. They are a bullet big time. They literally ghosted me for a year and according to a friend, they dated within that period, in fact they had 3 partners in that time frame. Then tried to say I'm the on who truly gets them. It's not ok.
Also pretty sure they were having an emotional affair during the last time. This person they dated and them were besties. Also once their friend told them they were spending too much time with me and that's a reason they broke up with me once. Theyd cancel plans with me to be with that friend. I wish it could just be less complicated to be honest.
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It sounds like your ex just wants to have you around as a backup partner. I agree you def dodged a bullet with the last breakup. Your ex may claim that your friends but a real friend would acknowledge they f#cked up & that it's better for you if they stay hell out of your life. You need to set some firm boundaries & block all contact permanently.
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