New to the forum and the reality of ASD

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I'm a middle aged Caucasian male, according to self testing I'm at least moderately autistic and probably pretty empathic. I took the AQ, EQ, RAADS-R and CAT-q and they point to some notable signs of strong to very strong Autism, or support my hypothesis of the presence of ASD. All that I have read and watched leave me certain of this. Knowing the limited value of self-Dx I am slated to get a medical assessment and medical Dx next.

A couple times in recent years I wondered if this could be cause for my bouquet of social and career-limiting quirks (this word does some heavy lifting here). Quirks that are not well explained by Fibromyalgia or my childhood Dx of ODD. We did not understand ASD back then, we didn't screen as we do now. I have to wonder how things would be different had this been detected in early childhood. I sort of always just thought I was a bad or defective person,

I'm not surprised, or even disturbed by this realization. If anything it is a relief to understand why I've been in a social fish bowl for more than half a century. It has gotten worse as polyarticular arthritis ups the pain ante pretty spectacularly on some days. Going to town is something I deeply dread with the passion of a thousand suns, so regular therapy is likely out of the question. Not sure if I have questions or just a general desire to learn more from others so effected.

Absolutely open to critique or input.

Thank You

GJ.

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