How do I find "direct" mediators for support?

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__Elijahahahaho
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Today, 9:53 am

A lot of people in the healthcare field, when I am asking for support
infantilise me and also use "empathetic language" which i find abusive
because it makes you feel like everything is fine without actually doing anything.

Eg:
"I understand that.."
"It can be hard to ..."
" ...."

I am looking for someone to help mediate a dispute and manage an urgent situation.
Does anyone have any ideas or thoughts about how to do this?
What are your red flags?



timf
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Today, 12:43 pm

Dispute mediation usually requires the agreement of the two parties to the authority of the mediator.

If what is in dispute is a lease, contract or other legal circumstance, mediation may have to have legal approval such as with a judge.

Most people prefer to avoid disputes in general and particularly those in which they are not involved. It might be possible to enlist the aid of someone from a church to act to help settle a dispute, but even here the odds would be against you.