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Adamantus
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12 Feb 2025, 12:08 pm

Don't have PDA
If you do not have PDA please do not answer this topic.

Do have PDA or suspected
I can't cope with demands and they cause me so much pain. I can never seem to change that, have any of you made any progress with demands, even your own? If so, what did you do?



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17 Feb 2025, 4:33 pm

What's PDA? It doesn't sound like your talking about public displays of affection.


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17 Feb 2025, 4:39 pm

Pathological demand avoidance

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pathologi ... _avoidance


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17 Feb 2025, 5:54 pm

Bestiola wrote:
Pathological demand avoidance

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pathologi ... _avoidance
Oh OK. I didn't place the abbreviation. My girlfriend has this on top of other various stuff & she hasn't made much progress so I'm gonn follow this thread.


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17 Feb 2025, 6:35 pm

Unfortunately no, even leisure activities often send me in a procrastination/avoidance cycle. Like who the hell gets overwhelmed by the thought of playing video games? :oops:


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