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Hi everyone, I'm new to this site and starting my journey.

Since I was young, I always felt different. I didn't understand my parents well, and later, when I started school, I experienced a lot of miscommunication with teachers and other kids.

I always loved to mess and soil my pants, and at night, my diaper. I was a bedwetter until my mid-teens, and during the day, I frequently had accidents (both #1 and #2), sometimes bigger, sometimes smaller. When I went through periods with more accidents, my mother would put me back in diapers for a while, either as punishment or for protection. I loved being diapered and cared for.

Even now, as an adult, I occasionally have small accidents during the day, though not at night.
When I grew up, I discovered the ABDL community online, and I strongly relate to it.

Almost two years ago, I started therapy. I realized that the ABDL tendencies, along with other behaviors, were a way for me to seek security. So, we've begun working on that. I'm filled with trauma from so many years of feeling different and misunderstood. While we're working through it, I've slowly started to lose interest in some of those behaviors, including ABDL. However, as my therapist guides me, I still wear a diaper almost every night, and in the morning, I still mess and wet it. But I can definitely feel that I don't need it or crave it as much as I used to, and the AB part is almost gone, hopefully forever.

A few months ago, my therapist sent me to a psychiatrist, who suggested I might have level one ASD. I was shocked and also kind of excited to finally understand what might be going on. I started researching ASD and took some tests, all of which indicated that I do have it.
Learning about ASD has opened up a whole new world for me. I love that I can finally begin to understand myself.

On the other hand, I'm struggling with many things, some of which have improved over the years, but I still struggle considerably.
My sexual life is one of these. I'm married to my beloved wife, who has some other mental health challenges, and we have lovely children, but sex is a hassle.

So, I'm wondering what kind of topics are appropriate to discuss on this site. I have a lot more to share about all of this and other things. Feel free to ask me anything. I'll try my best to reply to everyone when I have time, probably within a couple of days.

I love you all

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Good Boy, Welcome to Wrong Planet.

Bed wetting, that is an interesting topic to begin with. It brings to mind the Sierra Club. When I was in my late teen years, I joined the Sierra Club and we went on walks through the country side. Sometimes these walks covered many miles and lasted several days. So it was impossible to stop going No. 1 or 2 for an extended period. So the Sierra Club had developed a system to control the process. So if you had to go, you dug a hole in the ground, then went, then covered the ground, so that nothing was left on the surface. Sometimes the group contained both men and women. Sometimes the area where we slept at night in the wild was very remote. The rule was boys on one side and girls on the other when it went to using the potty.

So in a way you are a little Old School. What did humans do a few thousand years ago before there were bathrooms. Good Boy, you are Old School.

Thank you all for your comments and warm welcome. I really appreciate having such a nice group of people who understand me, and I finally feel like I understand myself.

I have difficulty understanding rules and guidelines, which has made my entire life challenging. The same applies here on this wonderful site, so I'll do my best not to violate any rules. I hope I succeed, but if I don't, please let me know, kindly, either publicly or privately, and I'll edit my post as needed.

As I understand it, the ABDL fetish is not allowed here, so I'll do my best not to discuss this topic or go into details.

@jimmy m, did you mean I should start by sharing my bedwetting experiences? I hope this topic is okay to discuss here.

And should I post it here or in an other sub forum?

No, you are free to discuss almost anything on this site provided you do not attack others.
I just tried to enter your train of thoughts. Many times when humans get very old (both males and females) they run into difficulties controlling their bladder. So they sell underwear for elderly people who experience this difficulty. It is available in many stores. So if this problem ever comes back as you get older, they already have created a fix for it.

So you began by saying, "So, I'm wondering what kind of topics are appropriate to discuss on this site. I have a lot more to share about all of this and other things."

Generally you can speak whatever is on your mind. But avoid attacking other members on the site.

Certain topics are always prohibited, even when they don't include attacks.
See - viewtopic.php?t=263570

Fetishes in general aren't to be discussed on this website; it isn't a matter of specific fetishes being off-limits, it's all fetishes.

Right, I'm aware of that underwater you are talking about.
Very clear, I think I'll start with this topic since this is taking a big part of my life

!	Cornflake wrote:
	An introduction thread isn't the best place in which to start conversations on specific issues, therefore a couple of posts discussing adult issues have been moved to a new thread in Adult Autism Issues, here - My potty training and related issues Let me know if a different title would be a better fit.

Good Boy, they moved this discussion into another area of the WrongPlanet website.
This topic area is called Adult Autism Issues. So you might go there and read more about the topic.