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chris1989
Veteran
Veteran

Joined: 2 Aug 2018
Gender: Male
Posts: 1,336
Location: Kent, UK

Today, 9:48 am

A remember a young woman who had a 10 year old so she must have had him or her rather young and she said in response to people being "ready" for children, "well when are you ever going to be ready for a screaming child?"

My sister had her son at 26, when I was 26, it never crossed my mind to have children then and I wasn't really with anybody. I still feel no different now and still not with anyone but I'm worried that if I don't I'll regret it later on. It feels like people do these things regardless of really wanting to or whether they can afford it.

Hearing of people who had kids very young makes me feel as though the early 20s are the "perfect time" than later for both men and women but again at that stage during my college and uni years that never even remotely crossed my mind.