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Hey.....Im 16 and recently i lost my girlfriend was together just over a year but my affect with ASD
i felt very close and still have strong feelings....argueing was a problem she understood me very well....
but things went wrong...i hope i will get back on my feet....but nstead i dropped out of college
and started doing drugs again and drinking alot i may only be 16 and people may thing different
but i no what love is and i no when something is killing me inside...i self-harm quite alot, cant sleep and hardly eat
i need serious help i think anyone have any helpful ideas for me ?

start by stopping the drugs and alcohol. That is just a temporary fix to make you feel better but will only make things worse in the end. As for the rest, one day at a time, you still have a lot of life and more girls ahead of you, but no girl wants an addict for a serious boyfriend! And if the girl you were dating changes her mind, give her something worth coming back for!

It sounds like you're having a lot of trouble. If you're not dealing well with it on your own, maybe you should try to see a psychologist or some other type of counselor about your problems.

Seriously, stop taking them. You'll only be left feeling like sh*t when the effect is over, with less money and another day wasted. A downward spiral.

Exercise, get out, take a hobby, lift your mood.
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I agree with what has been said. From experience I know that drinking will only make things worse, and using drugs to escape will just dig you deeper into the hole. I think some people have to actually experience what it feels like to hit rock bottom in order to get better, but maybe you don't. If you want my advice, I'd tell you to seek a psychiatrist to deal with your feelings of loss and focus on getting your body healthy - get exercise, eat healthy foods, do things that make you feel good. You'll feel so much better.

hang in there. it does get better with time. take a leap of faith and continue college, focus in something else. trust me, your life will be much worse if you keep on drugs and stop school.

Love hurts. You think it's going to last forever, you think you know all you need to know to keep it going and then you find out you don't and it ends, whether she suddenly dumps you or you get so unhappy you walk away, it does hurt. You should play sad songs and walk around and cry for a week and then go on. Pay attention to what was good and what was bad because you know what? You got you found love once, you can find it again! Keep going to college. You've got a lot of growing up to do.

It gets better, it really does. And yes, don't drink to forget! (in fact, you're too young, don't drink!)

Ow! I know it hurts! I never lost someone I loved but I imagine it all the time and I never had love really, so I feel your pain! If you absolutely need to do drugs though, please try antidepressants for a while and do everything everyone else here said.

I am not condoning you to drink but if you can drink, without it making chronically depressed straight away. It could be a sign on the inside deep down you are not deeply depressed.

From my experiance, if you drink when you are chronically lonely it will make you unberably depressed. Loneliness is a rew feeling and is not always down to negative thought. I also knew somone else who could not drink because of loneliness.