flamingjune wrote:
Does anyone use sign language as a secondary form of communication?
Often I find that although I have something to say the larger problem is in the act of being able to physically speak them, most often when I'm agitated or uncomfortable. So I started looking into learning sign language. I know a few people who know the manual language and using it is comfortable for me, but fingerspelling is time consuming and slightly confusing.
I figured I'd see if anyone else found it useful before I go off obsessively spending large sums of money on instruction.
I have found that receptively sign language is just as difficult as spoken language, because it comes and goes with the same speed as spoken language. I have forgotten a lot of the expressive vocabulary, and it truly is a whole new language. One thing to consider, too, is that the sign language you learn will likely only work in some English-speaking countries and not others. American Sign Language is closely related to French Sign Language, for instance, but is not related to British Sign Language.
I and some other autistics with significant speech trouble have found that what has worked best for us is to carry a text-to-speech (TTS) device around with us at all times, or, if we cannot afford one, a smallish wordprocessing device such as an AlphaSmart. Some use these things full-time and others part-time. (I had been experiencing a decrease in communicative speech abilities over time, so I started out part-time but eventually went to full-time.) The lowest-tech alternative, of course, being pen and paper (and I've heard of some people using chalk and a slate, although those people weren't autistic). It can be possible to get insurance to cover a text-to-speech device, but I have seen them occasionally for as low as $180USD or less on eBay (I got one for $180 that had more features than the one my insurance paid over $1000 for, but I only would've paid about $75 if it hadn't been for a last-minute bidder). I can give you different names and websites for such devices if you want more information; there are many.