I seem to only like Foreign Women

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18 Nov 2007, 4:53 pm

I seem to only like Foreign Women I don't really like American Women as much as I like I seem to only like Foreign Women is there something wrong with me ? Im American by the way but I seem to have some kind of fetish for Woman with a foreign accent English French German or any European or Australian. I have met a few foreign girls in High School I met one was from Germany and one was from Norway and the other one was from England. I just get really horny just hearing a foreigin Woman talk I just wanted to tell someone about this fetish I seem to have.



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18 Nov 2007, 5:02 pm

That's OK, I have a thing for foreign women as well. In the past I've had an Indian and a Chinese girlfriend and the lady I've been living with for the last six years is from Hungary. As for accents, I find the accents of the women from the Southern USA really REALLY attractive and I could listen to Emily Proctor (the blonde from CSI: Miami) for hours.

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18 Nov 2007, 5:38 pm

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18 Nov 2007, 5:43 pm

One of my exes seems to have this thing about scandinavian girls. I think I'm actually the only girlfriend he's had who wasn't from norway or sweden. He can even speak norwegian. I find it pretty funny really.



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25 Nov 2007, 10:56 am

I to have a thing for foreign women. I love the accents. It's not a requirement, thankfully, because there are very few foreign women here. If it were, I would never get a date.



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30 Nov 2007, 9:07 pm

Dude, you have three threads on this. lol.

I prefer European women as well, though.



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01 Dec 2007, 3:02 am

Interesting, but even more interesting is the question of why this seems to be true of many Aspies.

I think that we, in general, as Aspies, tend to prefer foreign partners because our lives have been, in many ways, a sequence of frustrations with the social norms/mores of our own culture, as well as a growing series of realizations throughout life that many of the social rules adhered to so religiously by many people are nothing more than arbitrary social constructs.

Therefore, much in the same way that we tend to feel that we're living on the "wrong planet", we may also feel that we're living on the "wrong continent", and we may think that we'll find refuge from the constant adherence of others to arbitrary norms by fleeing into the framework of another society, drawing us to foreign partners. The foreign accent itself may even come to symbolize the antithesis of our own culture--the culture with which we're so frustrated, and hence, it becomes, for no obvious reason, a "turn-on".



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01 Dec 2007, 8:32 pm

JasonWilkes wrote:
Interesting, but even more interesting is the question of why this seems to be true of many Aspies.

I think that we, in general, as Aspies, tend to prefer foreign partners because our lives have been, in many ways, a sequence of frustrations with the social norms/mores of our own culture, as well as a growing series of realizations throughout life that many of the social rules adhered to so religiously by many people are nothing more than arbitrary social constructs.

Therefore, much in the same way that we tend to feel that we're living on the "wrong planet", we may also feel that we're living on the "wrong continent", and we may think that we'll find refuge from the constant adherence of others to arbitrary norms by fleeing into the framework of another society, drawing us to foreign partners. The foreign accent itself may even come to symbolize the antithesis our culture--the culture with which we're so frustrated, and hence, it becomes, for no obvious reason, a "turn-on".


You have just answered a question I've been asking myself about myself for a long time. I'm glad I wandered into this thread now :)



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01 Dec 2007, 8:44 pm

JasonWilkes wrote:
Interesting, but even more interesting is the question of why this seems to be true of many Aspies.

I think that we, in general, as Aspies, tend to prefer foreign partners because our lives have been, in many ways, a sequence of frustrations with the social norms/mores of our own culture, as well as a growing series of realizations throughout life that many of the social rules adhered to so religiously by many people are nothing more than arbitrary social constructs.

Therefore, much in the same way that we tend to feel that we're living on the "wrong planet", we may also feel that we're living on the "wrong continent", and we may think that we'll find refuge from the constant adherence of others to arbitrary norms by fleeing into the framework of another society, drawing us to foreign partners. The foreign accent itself may even come to symbolize the antithesis our culture--the culture with which we're so frustrated, and hence, it becomes, for no obvious reason, a "turn-on".


I came here to say roughly that.

You going to ASU?



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02 Dec 2007, 12:36 am

I don't see anything wrong with it. Just date foreign women :D they probably feel very lonely and would appreciate your attention.



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02 Dec 2007, 12:59 am

Myrkabah -- Yeah, I am going to ASU. How do you know about the school? It's fairly small and unknown.



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02 Dec 2007, 10:24 am

See, I tend to be somewhat wary of foreign women to a degree. One reason is the personality and culture gap (if it exists) just because I feel like they just haven't changed or adjusted to U.S. culture which makes it feel real likely that the attraction in and of itself is based on a misconception of my internal identity on their part. The other part, heh, when I did meet an attractive East European or Ukrainian girl back in college I'd always be kinda worried that they had all kinds of relatives in the Russian mob or knew 50 ways to kill me with a paper clip (I know, maybe slightly unrealistic - it does happen).

As for Asian women, I know a lot who are very attractive but at the same time, just like with women of most other cultures - I'd either want to date a girl who's second or third generation American or alternatively a girl who's personality already does fit right in and seems well enough naturally adapted to our culture that I don't have to worry about any interest built on a mental state that she'll be shifting out of within a few years of living here.



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02 Dec 2007, 3:05 pm

it's funny that even though the U.S. is supposed to be the "land of immigrants", you aren't treated as an equal in the U.S. unless you were born here 200 years ago. Whatever. I don't want to shift to politics though.

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See, I tend to be somewhat wary of foreign women to a degree. One reason is the personality and culture gap (if it exists) just because I feel like they just haven't changed or adjusted to U.S. culture which makes it feel real likely that the attraction in and of itself is based on a misconception of my internal identity on their part. The other part, heh, when I did meet an attractive East European or Ukrainian girl back in college I'd always be kinda worried that they had all kinds of relatives in the Russian mob or knew 50 ways to kill me with a paper clip (I know, maybe slightly unrealistic - it does happen).

As for Asian women, I know a lot who are very attractive but at the same time, just like with women of most other cultures - I'd either want to date a girl who's second or third generation American or alternatively a girl who's personality already does fit right in and seems well enough naturally adapted to our culture that I don't have to worry about any interest built on a mental state that she'll be shifting out of within a few years of living here.


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02 Dec 2007, 3:48 pm

lonelyLady wrote:
it's funny that even though the U.S. is supposed to be the "land of immigrants", you aren't treated as an equal in the U.S. unless you were born here 200 years ago. Whatever. I don't want to shift to politics though.


edit: I read that post a couple times over and I think I see what happened. When I was writing it I re-edited it a few too many times and something pretty important got left out. That second sentence about assimilation, what my main concern has been is mainly that there tends to be a window of time - between when someone gets here and when they sort of start thinking like everyone else: I'm not wary of them as much as I am that time period, particularly because they're going through a great deal of change and particularly if they're more on the innocent or traditional side it feels like things are more prone to misunderstanding.



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03 Dec 2007, 12:51 pm

techstepgenr8tion wrote:
See, I tend to be somewhat wary of foreign women to a degree. One reason is the personality and culture gap (if it exists) just because I feel like they just haven't changed or adjusted to U.S. culture which makes it feel real likely that the attraction in and of itself is based on a misconception of my internal identity on their part.


I am American, but feel not very well connected to American culture. Hence, I prefer foreign women (my lovely wife is foreign born). I'm sure that there are some very nice American-born women - just not the ones that I happened to become intimate with.



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04 Dec 2007, 7:05 am

easy solution, move to another country


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