Is Force the Only Way?

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To get a woman when you have Asperger's?

"Force?" That sounds like rape. Better not try it.

Some things are largely a matter of luck and the only course is patience.

Force with the wrong girl will land you in jail.

FYI, there are no girls in jail.

You don't "get" a woman by raping her. All you'd "get" is momentary sexual gratification... at the cost of profound psychological harm to the woman. And, hopefully, the cost of a lengthy prison sentence for yourself.

If you really think that sex with someone who doesn't want you would be better than masturbation, I suggest hiring a prostitute. Or perhaps buying one of these. [link to adult site removed by gwenevyn]

Of course it isn't. I speak as a female, with Asperger's, and I assure you, anyone who forced me to do anything isn't about to get me, and I believe that applies to many NT females as well. If things are that bad, hire a prostitute.

Don't force anyone to do anything.

Tim

When you mean by force do you mean by physical combat with another male competitor?

If that is what you want then you should probably be more direct....how about you go up and TELL her that you like her.

The worst thing that can happen is that she says no(Unless theres is any inanimate objects on the counter).

ER....................................

You tell her.

plain and simple.

worked for me.

If you force someone to have sex with you, you will cause serious psychological damage to the other person. I know from personal expereince...
Also, if they press charges, you will most likely end up in prison.

DO NOT FORCE OTHERS TO DO ANYTHING THAT THEY DO NOT WANT.

If you want to be with someone, then tell them. Do not just force yourself onto them. If they do not want to be with you, then leave them alone. Do not force yourself onto them if they say no.

Force is NEVER EVER EVER the way to GET ANYTHING from ANYONE, especially when you're looking for a relationship. Don't even think about it, because legitimately considering it is the first step to doing it.

At first I thought you meant THE FORCE. LOL. That might work. My suggestion. Act aloof. The less available you are the more desired you will be. It might drive you crazy along with the girls, but eventually with patience...god knows that's a tuffy...but less is more and it never hurts to make them think they have competition. Seriously.

A girl/guy wants a someone that is wanted by others. It's human nature. I just read an article that suggested something similar, right down to how much sperm a man will put in a woman he thinks has recently been with another man, it will always be more than in a faithful lover. No joke. It's basic instincts that we as civilized people think do not affect us.
Monogamy is unnatural. Try dating a few woman at the same time that way you will not smoother any one girl too much (taking from my own experience in reverse- l like guys). Just remain honest. It will work.

I wish it had not taken 1000 errors to come to this. The last one was a hard blow to my system. Personally I am out of the game, but believe me I do have many answers for the dating issue... when I am not the one in the relationship. Call me Hitch.

I am more than happy to help everyone here with your dating issues.

Ooh, I think that's pretty bad advice. I agree with the other posters that forcing a person into doing something is a bad idea too.

As the other posters have mentioned the first thing I thought when I read that statement is you want to force yourself on a woman.

I'll presume you are having an 'aspie moment' and meant something other than rape or enslavement of someone else. Do you mean learning to become more assertive or force yourself to be more social?

I don't have a problem with hypothetical questions like whether somebody can get what they want without having to harm somebody else. It it better that people do discus controversial matters. If you are going to discuss it you might as well do it properly and be clear what it is you want. What do you mean by 'get a woman'? What exactly are you hoping to get out of them? I presume it is not just sex because anyone can solicit sex without having to resort to rape, not all of the methods involving prostitution if you believe there is exploitation with all sex workers.

You only have to look at this love and dating section to see that Aspies are capable of having partners by legitimate means.

Maybe he believes himself to be a Jedi.