merr wrote:
A music snob is someone who listens to the most obscure artists, hates mainstream, or thinks any band who is popular sucks.
Yes, I listen to the "most obscure artists". Yes, I hate the mainstream. No, I do not think that any band that is popular sucks for that reason alone.
I started seeking out more obscure artists because I got bored with the mainstream when I was in high school. I did not know anyone else who listened to non-mainstream music, so if it was trendy somewhere, I was not aware of that. My taste has stayed the same. I'll give anything a listen or two. Then I continue to listen to whatever I like, no matter how popular or unpopular it is.
I don't care if people call me a music snob. I think I am a music snob because I know more about music than most people, not because of what my taste happens to be. Taste is subjective, but knowledge can be measured. I admit that I don't know everything about music, and that the knowledge I have accumulated is the result of an obsession. I prefer to be called a "rock nerd" or "music nerd" because I think it's a more accurate description.
merr wrote:
What a ridiculous way to live.
I don't find my life to be ridiculous. I have a lot of fun. I do the same things everyone else does, except that everything revolves around music. I go to the record store instead of the mall. I read books about musicians instead of whatever normal people read. I give my guitar a make-over instead of giving myself a make-over. I listen to records instead of watching TV. I watch documentaries about bands instead of fictional movies. I go to see bands instead of going to sporting events. Sure, I'm obsessive and geeky, but I like my life.