paolo wrote:
I understand that people need security and that dangerous people must be made harmless. But the only understandable meaning of punishment is that of a mother who, unsuccessful in disciplining her children hits them. This should be interpreted as “deterrence”. I want you (child) to know who counts more at home, and if I do not convince you I will show you (hitting you) who counts more.
In other words, how does one prevail without becoming* what one is trying to prevail over ?
Often ask these sort of questions (of self, as well as culture in which I live)-but have no answers.
*Therefore, behaving in self-defeating/counterproductive manner that subverts/negates what one is intending to promote/encourage-or vice versa.
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