I still flap away; if anything I do it more vigourosly than I used to when I was younger, but now I only tend to do it when I'm on my own. I have set 'routines' which I follow; sometimes hitting my left hand with the fingers on my right hand, or flicking my fingers against my leg, or go for a full on wall punch if I'm feeling lucky
Having said I only do it in private, a girl I work with did tell me it was rather endearing to watch me do 'the hand thing' ; which did make me realise I do it at work as well, including flicking/slapping the furniture. She wondered if I did it when stressed, but I tend to do it with nervous excitement / happiness, so I associate flapping with 'good times'
I realised my mother was completely used to it, when I consciously flicked her quite hard on the arm as an experiment..and she took not one bit of notice...still, she's had 30 years of it.
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