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There is this really cute boy. I know we have at least 4 things in common because he wears a lot of anime shirts and has the same exactly hoodie as me (Sweeny Todd). He is nerdy and looks like he is really sweet. Not like those "hott" guys who look conctided, like someone you could cuddle with xD. I see him a lot in the halls and I know I have lunch with him on Monday. I am too afraid to talk to him though. My friend may talk to him for me but NTs generally do not like that. I hate how I see someone who seems to be decent and I am too afraid to make that leap >.<

What should I do???

Talk to him and get to knew better then tale the leap.

You're friend could draw attention to you (like a "wingman" does for guys pursuing women) or set you up on a "blind date."

I'm not sure about a blind date, though I'd consider it (maybe he'll think you set it up; I don't know quite what an NT would think on that issue).

In all seriousness, what about facebook or myspace? You can try talking to him non-face to face, e-mail even.

i know it might be scary but you should go and talk to him

you only live once and if you let your fear control you then you wont get the best out of life

(just my opinion)

Yeah but let's be honest, who actually does that?

Thats my problem. I don't have a Myspace and I'm pretty sure he doesn't have a FaceBook. I would like to maybe talk to him a bit just enough to get his # and or sn. So I can be more open to him there and soon be more open in person. Thats why my friend wants to talk to him frist.

Well are you saying you don't have his s/n, or wasn't given it so it's rude to IM?

Rude? What's rude

If you can get it from anywhere go for it, but I think you have the right idea as to what you should be doing. I'm sorry I can't be of more help, but this isn't something I can do in my life so there isn't much info I can part with

I didn't say anything was rude. I'm just saying, I don't have a Myspace to find him on. Which poses the problem to getting his sn or number.

Dear Poeticromance,


Go talk to him.

Seriously, what is the ABSOLUTE WORST THING that could happen?

If he decides he doesn't like you and won't talk to you, you're no worse off than you are now, not talking to him.


Ask him about his favorite anime. Ask where he got his hoodie. Ask if school sucks as much for him as it does for you. (It does. It sucks for everyone your age.)

Don't start by telling him you're attracted to him. That can wait until he knows you a little better. Just talk about the stuff that interests both of you.



Now, I'm old enough to be your father, and have learned more than a few things in my time. Trust me on this, you really have nothing to lose by going forward.





Good luck,

Ikari Gendo

me so stop being so cynical bud

and from wat i read about you and the girl from work it looks like you did aswell

good luck wid it all