Okay, your post was a little difficult to understand. I'm still not sure what the second paragraph is about. Here's what I read it as:
[quote="jamieg"] I was told, a few days ago, that all my symptoms fit Asperger's. The Autism Specialists are going to tell my doctors to treat me as having Asperger's, even though I can't get a formal diagnosis. This is due to the fact that the people I was living with when I was 3 have died. Does this mean that I am diagnosed?[/q]
Sounds like you can not get a formal diagnosis due to not knowing if the symptoms existed when you were a child. Basically the Specialists are going to tell your Docs that you fit the bill for AS, but due to a technicality can get a diagnoses. You might get a PDD-NOS diagnosis depending on the Docs.