Aspergers and girls?????

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Im too easy to throw aside, dont know why this happens but Im not nasty or harmful, already had a few bad relationships and poor at being close to people, im poor at understanding singals etc and why a girl might maybe say a certain thing, it just seems ppl refuse to give me a second chance, im never known well by others, i never know when to ask a girl for a relationship and i have a lot of trouble handling relationships, i seem to be the only person out of all people in my town who has aspergers, i dont get it, everyone else does better with their lives, what can i do? i am a v misunderstood person

I was just thinking about the same thing today - how come I seem to be the only Aspie I ever met? How come I am the only person I know who hasn't found a life partner? How can it be I'm the only one like me always ??????

ive had bad gfs, had sex only once but not done enough else, the one i had sex with was a friend who had promised me a few weeks before that she was going to demonstrate it for me to help me get good relationships and that id always have her support, barely see her these days, dunno what i can do, id definitely accept someone who has aspergers

i dont even know what to do, im lost in this world, dont even know where to start or anything or how to get into girls n so on, this messes my head up :S

Well, you've certainly come to the right place!! Don't give up - enjoy the ride, however bumpy it may be. You'll find your way and your place eventually, and when you do you'll wonder why you ever felt so down. Things do get better - we're all allowed to feel a bit rubbish at times, and we all do, but don't let your sorrow blind you to all the fabulous things this life has to offer.

Ok I'll my life

I regularly like to visit pubs in some evenings
Like rock/metal/indie/punk/emo/gothic music
Like most types of films
Like the ps1, xbox 360, n64 as most boys do

I go to college studying ICT 4 days a week
I work at a cafe on Saturdays 10 till 4
I have started attending a gym called Total Fitness

JM2008, you're not the only one on this board who has had troubles with the opposite gender.

If nothing else after almost 2 decades of dating frustration, I have learned it is a raw numbers game. Especially for an Aspy, we just have to meet (and hopefully date) as many women as possible, and hopefully we find the rare one that we can connect with.

I almost had one a few years ago, but our timing was off. Hopefully I can find another...

I tend to find that the majority of girls that turn you down aren't really worth it anyway.

Dates are pointless. I've been on maybe three, and there was never a second date to follow it up.

Easiest way I've found, is to just be friends with a girl, and then see where it goes from there.