I only like certain songs, mostly ballads and if I can make out some of the words. With lots of songs I can't hear any of the lyrics; they're just a gabble of sounds. Although I like Schubert's 'Der Doppelganger' because it's so haunting. The emotion behind it is amazing, and it sends shivers up my spine. If I'm in any mood other than ecstatically happy then I would happily listen to it - it makes me want to cry (as does Elton John's 'Can you feel the love tonight?' and 'Your Song') and for some reason I'm most comfortable feeling low, and at least these songs give me a reason to cry. But apart from that select few songs, I can't stand songs in general because I can't make out the words. Even if I can sort of make out the words I much prefer to have the lyrics in front of me whilst listening so I know what I'm listening to.
Instrumental music however, is another story. I love it - I think music expresses emotions on another level; on a level that words cannot reach. At least I can't reach that level, although unfortunately I'm useless at expressing my emotions through music too. But sometimes I'll hear a piece and it will strike me deeply, and I can say 'yes, that describes exactly how I'm feeling' even though chances are I can't identify my emotion at that point. Which is why I love instrumental music! I also love being able to play a piece that strikes me, so I can actually put genuine expression into my playing - otherwise I'm rather hopeless at being expressive when I play. But when in a band or orchestra, or even just a quartet, the people there are mostly all there for the same reason as yourself, so at least there's some common ground and more chance of being able to hold conversation with them! Personally I just love the feeling of being in a musical ensemble - I can't pinpoint it, but it makes me genuinely happy, which is not a frequent occurrence in everyday life.
By the way I play in windband (clarinet,) jazz band (clarinet) and strings (violin / viola) at school (I'm also in choir but I like that because I know what the words are supposed to be!) I also play in strings, orchestra (both viola,) windband (cl) and jazz band (bcl) at music school (also in choir there - obligatory for anyone attending music school) and I've played bcl in Third and Second County Youth Concert Bands for a year or so, and am about to go into County Youth Orchestra on viola - I'm so excited!! !
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