If you want a date, cut the inferiority complex

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30 Nov 2008, 1:40 am

If you don't have the confidence, fake it till you make it. Be rebellious. Present an I don't give a f**k attitude. You don't have to have all the social graces in the world. I suggest entering a scene and dressing in what you think is a cool style. If you can't do that, play the role of the lone rebel. Let loose!

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30 Nov 2008, 1:46 am

No need for a date. A good f**k will do, though.

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30 Nov 2008, 1:48 am

Blatherskite wrote:

No need for a date. A good f**k will do, though.

Is there an escort in the house :lol:

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30 Nov 2008, 1:59 am

Yeah yeah yeah, you know what you gotta do. Hit it then quit it. Hump it then dump it. Eat it then beat it. Tap it then clap it. Deny it, supply it. Beaver then leave her.

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30 Nov 2008, 2:08 am

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If you don't have the confidence, fake it till you make it. Be rebellious. Present an I don't give a f**k attitude. You don't have to have all the social graces in the world.

I don't have an inferiority complex. I merely have an objective view on my abilities in this world and a lack of the hubris that 99% of the male population seems to have...

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I suggest entering a scene and dressing in what you think is a cool style. If you can't do that, play the role of the lone rebel. Let loose!

I honestly couldn't tell you what style is in style at this point... they always end up moving too quickly for me... As for what I would wear on my own, it's normally based on comfort and functionality, not necessarily "being a rebel"...

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30 Nov 2008, 2:10 am

Quick, blunt and to the point.

Also, in before "BUT YOU'RE A GIRL, YOU HAVE NO IDEA".

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30 Nov 2008, 2:12 am

Yeah, really, the ladies have no clue what it's like for loneliness.

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30 Nov 2008, 2:14 am

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Yeah, really, the ladies have no clue what it's like for loneliness.

Who says girls with AS never feel lonely?

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30 Nov 2008, 2:16 am

timeisdead wrote:

Blatherskite wrote:

Yeah, really, the ladies have no clue what it's like for loneliness.

Who says girls with AS never feel lonely?

Oi, that was a joke. I meant it to be sarcasm, but I don't seem to see a face here that conveys beyond a doubt that something is sarcastic. I should just do the *sarcastic* thing. I would have to say that I guarantee that a lot of girls know what it's like to be alone.

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30 Nov 2008, 2:16 am

If you want to watch a man do a song and dance pay admission to see a show. Otherwise, don't go on a date unless you're interested in getting to know someone for the purposes of romantic pursuits better. That would be the real person. The person they are going to be when they get off work and don't have time to put on a facade involving clothes and a whole different mindset. Because that's the person you're going to be dating most of the relationship. Now, men be yourselves on a date, and women, don't force men to do a song and dance that will do nothing but prevent you from figuring out if you really want to date them or not. Quit wasting each other's goddamned time.

-Frank

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30 Nov 2008, 2:19 am

Blatherskite wrote:

timeisdead wrote:

Blatherskite wrote:

Yeah, really, the ladies have no clue what it's like for loneliness.

Who says girls with AS never feel lonely?

Sorry, I never knew you were being sarcastic because a few guys on WP have stated the same in all seriousness. I absolutely can't stand it when they say we have it easy.

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30 Nov 2008, 2:21 am

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I was just saying that projecting an image ( that fits your personality) can your foot in the door, figuratively speaking.

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30 Nov 2008, 2:23 am

Yeah, well ladies are ladies. A lot of blokes gotta remember that they are such and should be treated as such. I'm ramblin'!

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30 Nov 2008, 2:24 am

Blatherskite wrote:

Yeah, well ladies are ladies. A lot of blokes gotta remember that they are such and should be treated as such. I'm ramblin'!

The idea guy is good to his girlfriend but can be aggressive if need be.

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30 Nov 2008, 2:25 am

timeisdead wrote:

frankcritic wrote:

I was just saying that projecting an image ( that fits your personality) can your foot in the door, figuratively speaking.

How would one know what kind of image to project? I tend to try to be myself and I don't get far. Most of my friends are females atm but I don't think I could see myself going out with any of them or knowing how to approach. Not close to any of them but I think I probably known them for long enough to be consider just friend material.

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30 Nov 2008, 2:27 am

RGiJapan, you just gotta plant your feet in front of them and tell it how it is. "You going to go out with me."

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