Agree with most of what you say, Ephemerella. It's always good to hear some real life experiences.
I agree 100% with your Pros ... also from experience.
For me a few things might be specific to the situation or individual.
ephemerella wrote:
AS make better husbands than NTs in some ways, in other ways NTs blow away AS people in how to be supportive, etc, in a loving relationship.
I was always being told by my ex that I was the least supportive individual she had ever encountered. No matter what I tried, it never seemed to be acceptable.
My new girlfriend has the opposite view, and finds me extremely supportive, and I find it very easy to be that way.
So I guess anything is possible if the chemistry is right.
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