Dark_Red_Beloved wrote:
GoatOnFire wrote:
Whatever you want to call them if their disability is deafness.

Otherwise, um. Special? Does it really matter?
Wow...I thought there'd be people jumping all over this one. You know, the misconception that autism= mental retardation.
Apparently not. Well, just thought with name game over whether autism is a"disability","disorder", or "disease" this might be of interest.
Ironically, I actually think that semantically speaking "mental retardation" is a better descriptor for autism than "disability", "disorder", or "disease", but because the word "ret*d" has been corrupted to become a slur it is probably not a good one.
Technically speaking, autistics do have parts of their brain where certain development is ret*d (so do most people, but that's a different matter). Autism isn't necessarily a disability because it sometimes has advantages depending on how the person is affected. Calling it a disorder also implies that the other people are in order and I don't think that is the case. Calling it a disease has the same problem as calling it a disability.
The way I read the opening post, I thought this was focused on everyone with a disability (which likely includes everyone), instead of just autists. At this point I get bored of thinking about the semantics and think 'why do I need another term to call a person with a disability something?'
So my final answer is that the correct answer as to what you should call a person with a disability: (drumroll)
A person with a disability.
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