Will any female here actually admit to liking jerks?

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28 Jan 2009, 8:34 pm

Honestly, do you or don't you. I don't care if you do cause I'm not at all looking for a girlfriend now but if you do...why? and why do "nice guys" not do it for you?



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28 Jan 2009, 8:37 pm

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Honestly, do you or don't you. I don't care if you do cause I'm not at all looking for a girlfriend now but if you do...why? and why do "nice guys" not do it for you?
you're kidding... right

I'm male, so you know, and I have NEVER come across ANY female that will admit to liking jerks... why would they?

As for asking that? why? that's not the sort of thing you ask women, that's likely gonna turn them right off you

my apologies if this seems harsh but that's the way I see it


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28 Jan 2009, 8:40 pm

Pikachu wrote:
P-Lane wrote:
Honestly, do you or don't you. I don't care if you do cause I'm not at all looking for a girlfriend now but if you do...why? and why do "nice guys" not do it for you?
you're kidding... right

I'm male, so you know, and I have NEVER come across ANY female that will admit to liking jerks... why would they?

As for asking that? why? that's not the sort of thing you ask women, that's likely gonna turn them right off you

my apologies if this seems harsh but that's the way I see it


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28 Jan 2009, 8:43 pm

Because "nice guys" make you feel like you have to be all nice, or at least as nice as they are. With a "jerk", who cares, you can pretty much be as rude and crude as you like.
As far as dating them goes, for just casual dating I'd probably pick the jerk, less pressure.



28 Jan 2009, 9:16 pm

Only jerks I like is when I am unaware someone is a jerk.

Only jerk I like is Mike on Benny & Joon because if it weren't for him, Joon wouldn't have met Sam when he placed him in the pot. :wink:



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28 Jan 2009, 9:38 pm

Because what may seem like a jerk to you is actually not.



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28 Jan 2009, 9:39 pm

I mod WP, does that count? :wink:

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28 Jan 2009, 9:52 pm

Are you referring to the so-called "bad boys"?

Keep in mind that many people go through a "rebel" phase (usually in their teen years), and seek people who are the opposite of their more conservative parents.

As people get older, they grow out of it and seek nice guys.



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28 Jan 2009, 9:54 pm

If they're famous and have money, it doesn't really matter. The majority of women that is



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28 Jan 2009, 10:22 pm

I won't admit to likeing jerks because I don't like them. They are trying to get certain in charge possitions at the same time as me. Would be complicated. I already have enough short temper aggressiong for two people.



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28 Jan 2009, 11:16 pm

the only jerks most of them (but not all) like(d) are called....exes...;)

There's a fine line between confidence and being a jerk; some women admire the first, but find the second excessive.



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28 Jan 2009, 11:33 pm

I admit it. I like jerks.

But not all jerks, most of them can go jump.



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29 Jan 2009, 9:00 am

I've known several girls sort of admit this, and it's not outright admitting they like jerks - it's about liking a guy who appears to be his own man, who doesn't take s**t from people, who is tough. Most of these guys are jerks, but that's not necessarily particularly clear until further into the relationship.



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29 Jan 2009, 9:07 am

Guys can be confident without being as*holes, you know. Try it.


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29 Jan 2009, 9:25 am

Yes I will admit I have liked jerks in the past. Not any longer. I don't tolerate the way the ones I dated in the past have treated me and I won't tolerate it in the future. I'd rather find a nice guy to settle with and enjoy my family with someday.



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29 Jan 2009, 9:45 am

Spokane_Girl wrote:
Only jerks I like is when I am unaware someone is a jerk.



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