Help! How can you tell a woman likes you?

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How can you tell a woman likes you? Does anyone have suggestions?

There's body language, which you can research. If she touches you, goes out of the way to say hi to you, little things like that can show interest.

I once had a girl who would follow me around in school and talk to me, even if not about anything interesting. Her friends even complained she didn't talk to them enough anymore because she was always talking to me. Obvious sign? Well I missed it until I thought about it later.
My point is it's always easier to tell when you're outside the situation (as is somewhat the case in memories). So we, as outside perspectives might be able to help.

Are you dealing with a specific situation? Give us details and we might be able to tell.

The best way to figure this out is to google "How to tell if a girl likes you."

If they can't stop looking at you while pretending to be busy. If you find that they jerk their head once they catch you glimpsing back at them, it's a sure known sign.....that is if they happen to be aspie such as myself....

They always seem to tell you some bit of information that is strangely personal. Something that you don't usually hear from normal interactions. Particularly, if you don't really know this girl.

Go on...

I've had women say "I don't usually tell this to other guys", before it actually sunk into this aspie skull that it was a direct(or indirect) sign of interest. That's when they are expecting you to make a move/flirt, so they know you are interested, in return. If you don't respond, they usually move on. They won't actually tell you flat out that they are interested, it's all about the clues. It's kind of cool that they keep it subtle, because you can be rejected just as subtly, and it won't feel so bad. After that first move, you are on your own to play your own game because everyone is different.

That's just one common way to tell that a woman is interested.

One way is when someone you trust (and can see the signals) says, "she likes you."

The situation is actually my ex-girlfriend. We broke up about 2 years ago, lost touch for about a year and now are hanging out again. We usually hang out one on one and go to eat and text message a lot. My sister thinks she likes me because she doesn't tell me any details about other boys or says she has a boyfriend and stuff. I don't want to ask her just yet and she's pretty shy. But I dunno!!

I try to figure it out too. I think if there's any physical contact, it might be a sign; like if a girl hugs you. I've had a few girls hug me but they only like me as a friend so I guess that's how they are with all their friends. I'll admit, my biggest problem is trying to figure out if a girl likes me as a friend or something more. Usually though, if the girl goes out of her way to talk to you or be with you, I'd say that's a sign that she likes you. Whether it's just as a friend or not.

If she talks to you in a non-patronising manner.