I did the whole club scene in OKC when I was younger. In my teens there were a number of clubs there that were 18 to enter (21 to drink, but 18 to get in the door). After seeing the same superficial-@$$ people over and over between 19-23, I got burned out. That, and I related to very few...if any...of them.
Once I got my new car after my accident in 2007, I spent a bit of time in the bars here in Tulsa. But 1) bar tabs got expensive and 2) same crap, just with older people and they weren't dancing.
So...been there, done that, thinking about finding a Unitarian Church here in Tulsa and joining it, because I am far more likely to find a woman there who will be 1)tolerant of my own religious beliefs and 2)have a worldview similar to mine.
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