Why are Aspie Men Bitter Towards Women??

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I think we are bitter towards women because all of what we have been through and it is easier to control hate than love.

What's your take on it??

I'm only bitter because of women being irritated by me being me, by women being accusatory, unsatisfied, sarcastic, and giving us other "cock-pecking" responses. (one flew over the cuckoo's nest reference)

I'm only bitter towards people who are bitter towards me. Gender is irrelevant.

yup women say one thing and mean another. I'm bitter too, have you seen any of my latests posts lol. But are you bitter because you feel that if you love them your feelings will be out of control? and do you feel bitterness because it's easier to control that bitterness?

not really. i just hate when women are unsatisfied with us, and say things like "i think i know more about that, than you do." anyone else get the impression that all women do is complain about men? where are all the boy-crazy women? that is the kind of woman i need.

I blame it on their tendency to be way too emotional about everything. And when we can't relate, they become vicious as hell, making snide comments and being generally indirect. Their emphasis on emotion, even in ones that could be considering highly inexpressive, can be way too absurd. My facial expression like 90% of the time = totally blank... and I've noticed that women in particular interpret it as angry or something. And all of them seem to dislike it. Why? Who knows? Maybe they get subconsciously offended because they seem to have zero visible effect.

But yeah... normal men don't understand women for the most part... so it's just a lot worse in an ASD case.

Edit: Evidence... = ovulation. That's not your girlfriend when that happens. Her private area assumes command. I'm thinking that the more in control a girl can be of herself in those situations, the better it is for me.

Same reason all men are man...
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*this is a joke. Don't hurt me, it's not my fault. Alright, I did it, but society's to blame.

I’m only bitter because women actually have shown interest in me before until they found out about my Aspergers or some of my Aspergers quirks. Once they found out I had it or they suspected I may have it they ran away and never talked to me again. Before they found out, they would always make these snide little comments that pissed me off. For example, if I was staring at the ground while they were talking ( a bad habit of mine, and many other Aspies as well) they would say something like “Hello, I’m up here!” in a really bitchy voice.

Once they would never talk to me again I would always get extremely frustrated for a while. But then I always cool off because I know I couldn’t have possibly handled it any differently. Every time it happened to me it wasn’t because of something I specifically did, it was always about my Aspergers, which I don’t have any control over so I try not to worry about it.

Exactly! They can be as f**ked-up as they want, but we'd better not have ANY imperfections, or we're doomed to a life of forced celibacy.

I feel bitterness only towards specific women, and only for what they have specifically done to me.

Other than that, I do not share your misogynism.

And believe it not not, thre are specific women I do NOT feel bitter towards (in fact, some are quite good friends) - note that they're all older. It's purely over the relationship side of things, as we are all sexual beings.

Women will marry and have daily sex with alcoholics, heroin addicts, wife beaters, emotional and verbal abusers, cheaters, gamblers, and so on, "but nooooo that aspie is just not.. umm.. i don't know. i need someone more... romantic. " - Women.

^^^ Glad you learnt that at a young age, so you won't become disappointed and disillusioned when you get older, as I have.

I can't say for sure, but I doubt if gay aspie guys are bitter toward women.

women only think they want an honest guy. if you look at who women chose to get laid and to stay with, you realize that many of them really want men to be as*holes and jerks, to lie to them, to dress up and drive a BMW. it does not matter that you lease the bmw or that it's your parents' and that you are only trying to get laid with her for one night. she knows, but she does not care as long as you say "i love you, have my babies." they also want you be as*holes. like an "you can go to hell. i don't care if you starve." kind of as*hole. and of course all relationships become needy, dependent, unhappy, with a list of nagging complaints.

I can understand an aspie male being bitter towards specific women who have rejected them. But if you take it out in a misogynistic matter, and lump women all into one category as evil harpies out to cock-block you, you'll be sorry. I'm not bitter towards men, even though I've been sexually assaulted before, and trust me, that is a LOT more traumatizing than getting turned down for a date. If you grow to hate women as a group, you'll only be setting yourself up for a life of misery and bitterness. Who wants that?