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01 May 2009, 2:36 pm

Here is what happened to me. Someone named ango took over my channel. I am
autistic, and I got mixed up from +votsriRfAF and +votsriRfA when i was
giving ops to ango and I accidentally gave him +votsriRfAF instead of
+votsriRfA . Ango took over my channel and deopped me and banned me from my
own channel. I went to freenode and asked them for some help on dropping my
channel. So instead freenode helping me out they told me that ango would
have to be the one to drop the channel. So I got really upset about that.
I told Christel that I was going to get ango back for that, and I said it
was a promise. So a freenode staff name christel told me to stop making
threats. I said that it was not a threat that it was a promise.From there I
was k-lined. I had one bad day. I am very upset and depressed over this
whole thing. I appologize for causing you a inconvenience. I really did
not mean to give the channel to ango. I was really frustrated too. I
really did not mean to sound so terrible. I appologize to all who is
involved in this, and I want to make sure that christel gets my appologies.
This will never happen again, usually i am a very good nice person to talk
to and usually i try to help other people out. I am very sorry for how i
acted on the freenode channel. Please write me back and let me know how
long my ban will be. Thankyou for your time.

i hope that someone can get a hold of freesnode staff and help me out here.


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01 May 2009, 5:33 pm

I am sorry this happened to you. It is always so difficult to keep code straight, and I can relate to the frustration this must cause you. When we put our heart and soul into something and have another usurp it, it is always such a heart break.

I have no idea about the freesnode, though. Perhaps someone here does and might be able to help you.

Hang in there, we welcome you to WrongPlanet.

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01 May 2009, 5:50 pm

To people with no background knowledge:

- Katesmith is an operator (ie sort of like a moderator if you're unfamiliar with the term) on the #wrongplanet IRC channel
- (The irc channel and the main site are pretty much independent entities these days)
- The channel is on the Freenode IRC network. This means that in order to use the network, you need to abide by their rules.
- A Freenode staffer found that katesmith was breaking one of these rules by threatening another user, and hence has permanently banned her from using the network as a result (k-lined)

My thoughts
-The k-lined was in error, she shouldn't really be banned, she is a great person
-Anyone from wrongplanet can do absolutely nothing to help
-She can get in contact with freenode staff herself via their website.



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03 May 2009, 8:28 am

I am really sorry for threatening another user on freenode. I did not mean
to sound so bad. I really would like another chance in freenode. I am
really sad about the whole thing. Please reconsider and give me another
chance. I promise it will never happen again.
----- Original Message -----
From: "Tom Wesley via RT" <[email protected]>


I keep on writing letters of appology but they never write me back.


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03 May 2009, 9:45 am

KateSmith sorry that you’re upset. However I would be good if #wrongplanet chat had somewhere else to vent, given the irc channel #wrongplanet and nothing to do with wrongplanet.net. That way there won't be constant spill over, which wrongplanet.net can not help with anyway.

Another thing is chat=constant drama. That is the truth. Forums lend themselves to some sort of focused discussion at least some of the time. Chat on the other hand is constant talking over each other, and bickering.



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03 May 2009, 9:49 am

Solution: New IP, new username if they decide they cba to get back to you...



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20 May 2009, 3:33 am

No wonder I can never get in the spirit of going back to pablum chat.....

Too fast, crazy, and full of drama...I can only handle so much people in my everyday life.... :|


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20 May 2009, 6:17 am

I am still klined from freenode. I even wrote them this letter.

I would like to be able to go back in wrongplanet, and the megaly channel, where I use to get lots of emotional support from there. I am really sad that I cant get on the channel. I really miss wrongplanet a lot. I have autism, and I need people to be more understanding toward my disability. I have people that know me really well in wrongplanet, and I need that support that I was getting.

I had been in the hospital for 5 days and the psychaitric hospital for 5 days. I am sorry about how I acted on freenode channel., but I must have went a little mental when I acted out against ango. I now feel better and I promise that that wont ever happen again. I would like to be given 'another chance on freenode'. I have been visiting freenode for years

The kline has been hard on me. I have a feeling that I will never be allowed back in freenode again. That means that I will never be allowed on wrongplanet again. I really miss the emotional support that I was getting in wrongplanet, and in the megaly channel. I had a meltdown in freenode, and ango took over my chat room, which triggered me to have a melt down. I really think that my kline is unfair. I wish someone could help me out with this matter.


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20 May 2009, 3:06 pm

sorry that was a mistake


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20 May 2009, 3:30 pm

Liability. If you make these threat and also to you own life, it is big a responsibility for a volunteer group to let you back in.



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10 Jun 2009, 3:21 pm

Dear Kate,
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> While we understand and sympathise with your being autistic and
>>>>>>> realise
>>>>>>> that you have in the past been able to get emotional support from
>>>>>>> the
>>>>>>> self-help groups whose channels reside on the freenode network we
>>>>>>> take
>>>>>>> threats of physical harm to other individuals to be a serious breach
>>>>>>> of
>>>>>>> our policies.
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> In addition, the various messages we have received lately in which
>>>>>>> users
>>>>>>> of #wrongplanet and other similar channel have made it clear that
>>>>>>> they
>>>>>>> feel that your hospitalisation was the direct responsibility of
>>>>>>> freenode
>>>>>>> for not allowing you to walk around threatening to harm other users
>>>>>>> makes this a situation with which we do not feel comfortable.
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> freenode is owned and operated by the PDPC, a not for profit
>>>>>>> organisation which is entirely volunteer run -- the freenode network
>>>>>>> has
>>>>>>> just under 60,000 daily users.
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> Our volunteers do not have the required training nor the time to
>>>>>>> effectively work with this sort of situation and it's both
>>>>>>> unrealistic
>>>>>>> and highly unfair to attempt to shift the blame and responsibility
>>>>>>> for
>>>>>>> your attempting suicide onto the organisations volunteers.
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> In light of this, we do not feel it prudent to lift your kline at
>>>>>>> this
>>>>>>> time and we believe that for this to happen the wrongplanet.net
>>>>>>> management need to step up to the task of actually managing their
>>>>>>> IRC
>>>>>>> presence and community in a manner which provide their users with a
>>>>>>> safe
>>>>>>> contained environment in which situations such as this do not
>>>>>>> overflow
>>>>>>> into other namespaces on the network, causing a adverse domino
>>>>>>> effect in
>>>>>>> which the many on-topic projects on the network suffer as volunteer
>>>>>>> time
>>>>>>> is drained.
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> I realise that this may not be the outcome you were hoping for and I
>>>>>>> am
>>>>>>> sorry that this is the case, but I am sure you can understand that
>>>>>>> we do
>>>>>>> not have the infrastructure in place to provide the necessary
>>>>>>> support
>>>>>>> for our volunteers when situations like this arise, and we do not
>>>>>>> feel
>>>>>>> it fair on them that they are made to feel emotionally drained and
>>>>>>> guilty for the responsbility placed upon them in light of the
>>>>>>> situation.
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> Kind Regards,
>>>>>>> Christel
>>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>
>>>
>>


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10 Jun 2009, 3:32 pm

Please consider unklining me, I promise that I would behave myself and
>> that I would follow all the rules. I promise that I wont go around
>> threatening people of physical harm. I really miss wrongplanet a lot. I
>> miss all of my friends that I had on wrongplanet. Please unkline me, I
>> am not a bad person. Please dont kline me forever, that makes me feel
>> bad. I promise that I would be nice to other people. I promise that
>> would never happen again. I really dont deserve to be klined forever. I
>> have lots of friends on wrongplanet. Please let me know something and
>> email me back. I think that I served a long enough kline and that I have
>> learned through this experience. Thankyou for taking me into
>> consideration and for reading this letter that I wrote.
>> ----- Original Message -----
>> From: "ksmith4494" <[email protected]>
>> To: <[email protected]>
>> Sent: Sunday, June 07, 2009 5:32 PM
>> Subject: Re: [freenode.net #20404] katesmith kline
>>
>>
>>>
>>> ----- Original Message -----
>>> From: "ksmith4494" <[email protected]>
>>> To: "ksmith4494" <[email protected]>
>>> Sent: Sunday, June 07, 2009 4:29 PM
>>> Subject: Re: [freenode.net #20404] katesmith kline
>>>
>>>
>>>> Please consider me to be unklined from freenode. I promise that I will
>>>> be good and follow all the rules. Please let me know something and
>>>> email a letter back to me. I want to know if I will be klined forever.
>>>> I would like to receive another letter from christel if possible.
>>>> Thankyou for your time on this matter.
>>>> katesmith
>>>> ----- Original Message -----
>>>> From: "ksmith4494" <[email protected]>
>>>> To: <[email protected]>
>>>> Sent: Saturday, June 06, 2009 3:40 PM
>>>> Subject: Re: [freenode.net #20404] katesmith kline
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>> Your IP address is:
>>>>>
>>>>> 75.138.193.224
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>> Your hostname is:
>>>>>
>>>>> 75-138-193-224.dhcp.snfr.nc.charter.com
>>>>>
>>>>> ----- Original Message -----
>>>>> From: "ksmith4494" <[email protected]>
>>>>> To: <[email protected]>
>>>>> Sent: Friday, June 05, 2009 8:09 AM
>>>>> Subject: Re: [freenode.net #20404] katesmith kline
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>>I really feel that I have been treated unfairly. I dont feel that for
>>>>>>banning me from freenode forever is the right decision. I have made a
>>>>>>mistake and I am sorry for the mistake that I have made. I promised
>>>>>>that I would never do anything like that again. I think that I have
>>>>>>served my time and that I have learned my lesson from this mistake. I
>>>>>>was upset when ango took over my room, and I feel that I was really
>>>>>>triggered. Sometimes when people get upset they say things that they
>>>>>>dont really mean, maybe you can relate to that. This sort of thing
>>>>>>never happened to me before. I think all of that should really be
>>>>>>taken into consideration. I think that I deserve another chance, and
>>>>>>so did some of my friends.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>
I would really appreciate it if people were to talk to christel on my behalf.


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10 Jun 2009, 4:14 pm

Here a better idea why don't you get you friends to talk to you on another irc channel or make friends here?

You need to understand a lot of the culture on ‘chat’ is extremely hyped. That is why there is much drama involved. Try to talke it with a huge pinch of salt.

freenode and wrongplanet have nothing to do with each other. I can understand their decision it makes sense.



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11 Jun 2009, 4:02 pm

Kate.
No one here can do anything about the k-line. Freenode can't be held responsible for if you do something to yourself or someone else, and it's reasonable that they don't want that responsibility.

There are many many other networks to look at though.



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14 Jun 2009, 8:27 am

*remembers why he left*

Oh, yeah, politics.

*clearly made the right decision, and has NO sympathy for the mess that is there now*



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14 Jun 2009, 11:31 am

* Personal attacks against people or other sites are not permitted. If you have an issue with someone, talk to them about it somewhere other than our forum.

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