11 May 2009, 6:36 am
11 May 2009, 7:26 am
She likes you 
Take it slow.
11 May 2009, 8:58 am
ask her for a coffee.
it puts less pressure on her, and on you- it will be for about an hour. if you go for a meal, it will last longer, and maybe have the need to dress up more- its more formally a date, too. and in the evening, there is omre of the 'do we kiss afterwards??' issue, which doesnt come up so much on say saturday afternoon...
if you do it during the week you could do it at lunch time, so you would know you definatly have to end at a certain time (so you can escape if its getting a bit stressy), or do it on weekend if you think you'd like to perhaps go on somwhere afterwards.
dont worry too much- if you know somewhere realy nice you could suggest that, but you can also ask her if there is anywhere she'd like to go.
good luck! you DEFINATLY can be sure she likes oyu if she gave you her number- it must have taken some confidence for her to do that. cool chick.
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11 May 2009, 10:51 am
Or she may want him to come and fix her computer
Anyway, when starting out dating, start out carefully. Casual dating is the simplest thing (for me at least) and not trying to over-plan or think about it too much.
And no talking about computers or other special interests, talk to her - let her speak and ask her the questions and i mean normal questions that you want the answer to, i.e. "are you seeing someone?" is a good start and can also save you from wasting time on her...
Oh, and girls like humor.
11 May 2009, 12:12 pm
11 May 2009, 12:19 pm
Umm... not really... I've had taken women give me numbers (and only later reveal that they were taken)...
11 May 2009, 4:22 pm
Umm... not really... I've had taken women give me numbers (and only later reveal that they were taken)...
You realize to the general populace taken and not taken are not the determining factors of really...much of anything for that matter?
Some are Taken and:
- Not happy in their relationship and looking for an out
- Not happy in their relationship and looking for a replacement
- Looking for additional friends who may later blossom into a potential relationship
- Looking for additional friends who may later become a potential relationship should they breakup with current partner
- In an Open relationship
11 May 2009, 4:48 pm
it puts less pressure on her, and on you- it will be for about an hour. if you go for a meal, it will last longer, and maybe have the need to dress up more- its more formally a date, too. and in the evening, there is omre of the 'do we kiss afterwards??' issue, which doesnt come up so much on say saturday afternoon...
if you do it during the week you could do it at lunch time, so you would know you definatly have to end at a certain time (so you can escape if its getting a bit stressy), or do it on weekend if you think you'd like to perhaps go on somwhere afterwards.
dont worry too much- if you know somewhere realy nice you could suggest that, but you can also ask her if there is anywhere she'd like to go.
good luck! you DEFINATLY can be sure she likes oyu if she gave you her number- it must have taken some confidence for her to do that. cool chick.
Social dating rules are so funny.
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