anybody obsessed with certian body parts like hands or feet?

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wherever I go, im always looking at ppls hands, love giving handshakes, grabbing their hands and makin them spin me, squeezing their hands, making their hands into puppets, giving them high fives, or im always looking at ppls feet like their shoes i love to measure my foot size against other ppl and step on their feet or sit on their feet, or love to put my hands under their shoes for pressure, or fiddling with their shoelaces lol. I'll also stare at my hands for hours flapping, shaking, twisting, pinching, opening and closing my hands over and over, or my feet ill bite my toes lol pull at the skin, stare at them as i wiggle them lol . is anybody else obsessed with certian body parts like hands and feet

Noses, that's the thing I always memorize with others.

do u ever squeeze ppls noses? i use to be on a fad with squeezing ppls noses and mine until i left my nose bruised, and until ppl got annoyed lol.

I agree! Hands and feet are so cool. *3* I take my friends hands and pose them to watch the bones and muscles~ (or just to make them do weird things. XD;; ) Why don't people's hands stay posed when you pose them? They always go limp. D:

I've also always been way obsessed with hips. They're so crazy. So cool looking from every angle! >3< Especially girls, because there are so many extreme curves and the shapes can be so exaggerated. They're so fun to watch. XD; At Victoria's secret, I just walk in circles around the manikins. oAo
I'm not attracted to girls, either. (Because I know that's what it sounds like, but I'm just fascinated by the shapes. OTL; )

I'm an artist, and my favorite thing to draw is people, because they're so cool looking~
People are the reason I draw! D:

i have this methinks.. although now with OCD i'm quite afraid to touch & be touched, but i love all kinds of contact..
and playfighting a little, but generally softer touches & i guess more sexually oriented.

I remember when I was in primary school I was obsessed with the teacher's hands, when I was near to her I was always staring at them and counting the fingers, always surprised to find out they were 10, like I was expecting something else... During adolescence instead I was obsessed with my right eye, I was worried about it being bigger than the left one and therefore horrible...

Boobs mainly.....i just love them

faces and the posture of the body.... they tell me so much.

I was in love with my baby's feet! I used to smell them all the time - they smelled like three things - sometimes pizza, sometimes french fries, but most the time like sweet, lemony iced tea. I think that we aspies have a lot of anxiety as babies. If certain hands or feet calmed that anxiety, we remain obsessed with them. The anxiety is from noise, and other outide stimuli. My son would recoil from human touch. He couldn't stand the sound of a lawnmower even if it was far off in the distance. BUT he liked it when I stroked his little feet. I guess it didn't tickle in an annoying way but felt nice. He's nine now and when he is under duress, he lightly rubs his feet on the carpet or any other soft surface. To get to sleep, he lightly rubs each feet with the other foot but concentrates on the soles of the feet. I got him a foot massager with the little balls on it - it resembles an abacus but he doesn't like it. I guess it's not the same sensation. I ended up using it after long walks. I used to babysit my cousin who is also an aspie. When he would cry for no apparent reason (that I was aware of anyway), I would get panicky and would place a soft pillow on his lap and have him press the pillow with his fingertips as though he was playing the piano. It calmed him and made him an accomplished piano player as well. Some of his most beautiful music comes from stress. His wife tells me he plays the piano on his pillow while he sleeps. I think that fetishes and obsessions come from what relieved extreme stress in our babyhood. We just carry them into adulthood.

Not really, but I'm very fascinated by noses. An ugly nose annoys me greatly.

Genitals.

(Sorry, that was a terrible joke but I couldn't help myself.)

Seriously, no.

On myself: the length of my spine and my short legs. I'm really vain about that, I think it makes me look like a wolverine, which is cool.

On others:

Men - the zigzag line of their eyebrow and cheek. I call it the androgen line. I love that line.

Girls and women - Heart shaped faces. I'm jealous of those, and I fixate on them definitely.

i break bodies down into sections of detail. a whole body of someone else is very overwhelming. i do not like to look at pics of whole bodies and magnify in on details and small sections with EVERYTHING and this includes human bodies.

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Nice hands are an attractive feature.

I always look at people's hands. Mostly because I find it hard too look people in the face for too long. I'll remember you by your hands before I'd remember you by your face.

I like my own hands. I have so many small scars on the back of my hands, my hands have so much character

Hmm, I was obsessed with lips throughout pretty much my entire childhood. It most likely stemmed from looking at people's mouths while talking to them. Then it was hair because in secondary school I spent a lot of time looking at people's hair to avoid looking into their eyes. Now, there's nothing specific I look at, my eyes just wander all around during a conversation. So no more specific obsessions for now...